Question, What are you supposed to do when your automatically made the bad guy in a relationship? You try to talk things through, understand, figure it out together; but when you do that the significant other flips out. I've been trying to figure out how I'm the bad guy for doing such a thing.

I was told by a friend of mine that my other friend saw my boyfriend cheat on me. I told my boyfriend that I had to talk to him about something and when I told him what it was I had to talk to him about, he freaked out on me saying "I can believe anyone I want" and so on and so forth. Then after that I went back to the person who was with him and asked them what happened that day and then asked him if my boyfriend cheated on me and he said no. I'm still really confused, but I really do believe my boyfriend. But now he's pissed off at me and I've apologized about a half a dozen times to him since last night.

Now when he calls me, hes all angry, and I dont know if it's because he's trying to look tough because he's with his friend or if its because he's still pissed off at me. I really don't want to loose him. I mean, its only been 2 months, yes, but I do really care about him. I don't know how I'm made the bad person for just wanting to talk to him about something that I thought was important. =[

I don't understand why things have to be so confusing and frustrating. I just wish I knew what he was thinking and I wish he would just listen. =/ Hopefully I get to see him Monday after he gets done work. At least then I'll know if everything is alright or not. =[